God knows what should be your priority and what should be beneficial for you

You will especially not find anyone who speaks bitterly to you. All the 'diseases' [worldly suffering] remains due to the sweetness. Bitterness will remove the disease, sweetness will increase it. Your life should be such that you will not have to listen to bitter words. If however, you have to listen to bitter words, then you should listen to it. It is always beneficial.

People having a victim complex invite someone to tease them into their lives though they could have mutually beneficial relationships

Everything is permissible but not everything is beneficial.