In not making the decision, you've made one. Not doing something is the same as doing it.

Look for your choices, pick the best one, then go with

You gotta play the hand that's dealt you. There may be pain in that hand, but you play it. And I've played it.

There are two ways of meeting difficulties. You alter the difficulties or you alter yourself to meet them.

Don't let other people tell you what you want.