Who would you be but who you are?

It was intended that when Newspeak had been adopted once and for all and Oldspeak forgotten, a heretical thought - that is, a thought diverging from the principles of Ingsoc - should be literally unthinkable, at least so far as thought is dependent on words.

The most empowering relationships are those in which each partner lifts the other to a higher possession of their own being.