The only way you can own this moment is to evict the victim mentality from the dwelling of your mind.

Feel da power swallow you whole. Let go an' lose yo'self in it.

I whispered to him, You'll regret it if you let me go. I don't wait for a man, if he's not willing to grow' He didn't believe me, he made his choice & That was the last time, he ever heard my voice.